So we have all heard the saying one bad apple can spoil the bunch and that may be true. As we know in the Law of Attraction, one bad experience at the beginning of your day can (if you let it) ruin the rest of the day. It simply a matter of the energy you put out is matched and you get the same energy back, whether positive or negative. So in this case one good apple can un-spoil the bunch if you focus on the good apple.
When I am coaching one on one or when I give my seminars on Law of Attraction many people I deal with seem to become overwhelmed with the thought of having to focus so much energy on having the ideal life. They feel there are so many different ares of their life that are not ideal that it would take forever to focus enough positive energy on them to have any real success. I am here to tell you, that is not the case. Just like one bad apple can ruin a bunch, one positive vibration or feeling in one area of your life can improve other areas of your life.
There are many things in our life that we only have or need 1 of. Most of us only have one house or home, one car we call our own, one true love in our lives. That is good news because it makes it easy to focus energy on making that one thing ideal. You don't have to spend a bunch of time trying to make your home ideal, because you only have one to make ideal. If you had three of 4 homes your energy output would be much greater trying to make them ideal. I am not saying you don't have to spend time making the ideal home, just that it is easier to make 1 home ideal than several. And the really good news is the more effort and energy you put towards that, the more momentum you gain in other areas of your life.
What I am trying to say is, pick one area of your life and focus on making it ideal, from that you will find that other areas of your life start to fall into place and become more ideal. Eventually when you have the ideal marriage, your focus can turn to another area of your life, perhaps the ideal home. And once that area of your life is ideal you can turn your attention to the ideal career and once that is in place you might find that your ideal financial situation has taken care of itself and that other areas of your life align with the positive vibes you are sending out around the other areas of your life.
The summary is this... when it comes to attracting the ideal life in all areas, start with one area, define clearly what you want, give it positive attention, energy and focus and believe it is possible and you deserve it and watch as the areas of your life start to get closer to your ideal. Forget the big picture... it will take on a life of it's own once the other areas of your life are where you want them to be. We know motion creates motion, so when one area of your life moves forward the rest will follow.